According to Jennifer

Late twenties. lovely Lawyer. New Yorker. eating and shopping enthusiast. Always laughing. Fitness fan. Lover of life.

“Of course, you never really forget anyone, but you certainly release them. You stop allowing their history to have any meaning for you today. You let them change their haircut, let them move, let them fall in love again. And when you see this person you have let go, you realize that there is no reason to be sad. The person you knew exists somewhere, but you are separated by too much time to reach them again.”

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Chelsea Fagan, How We Let People Go  (via thatkindofwoman)

This quote pretty much sums up a conversation I had with my friend yesterday.

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“Marry your best friend. I do not say that lightly. Really, truly find the strongest, happiest friendship in the person you fall in love with. Someone who speaks highly of you. Someone you can laugh with. The kind of laughs that make your belly ache, and your nose snort. The embarrassing, earnest, healing kind of laughs. Wit is important. Life is too short not to love someone who lets you be a fool with them. Make sure they are somebody who lets you cry, too. Despair will come. Find someone that you want to be there with you through those times. Most importantly, marry the one that makes passion, love, and madness combine and course through you. A love that will never dilute - even when the waters get deep, and dark.”

—   I think I’ve reblogged this before, but it’s an important reminder.

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“When you realize you’re competing for shit, you have to take yourself out of the race.”

—   Me

Our love came
unannounced in the middle of the night.
Our love came when we’d given up
on asking love to come. I think
that has to be part
of its miracle.

I will write a dictionary
of all the words I have used trying
to describe the way it feels to have finally,
finally found you.

I will love you when you are a still day.
I will love you when you are a hurricane.

—   Clementine von Radics, Mouthful of Forevers (via waydowntown)

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“As the years pass, I am coming more and more to understand that it is the common, everyday blessings of our common everyday lives for which we should be particularly grateful. They are the things that fill our lives with comfort and our hearts with gladness — just the pure air to breathe and the strength to breathe it; just warmth and shelter and home folks; just plain food that gives us strength; the bright sunshine on a cold day; and a cool breeze when the day is warm.”

—   Laura Ingalls Wilder, Writings to Young Women from Laura Ingalls Wilder - Volume One: On Wisdom and Virtues (via infinite-paradox)

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“For most of life, nothing wonderful happens. If you don’t enjoy getting up and working and finishing your work and sitting down to a meal with family or friends, then the chances are that you’re not going to be very happy. If someone bases his happiness or unhappiness on major events like a great new job, huge amounts of money, a flawlessly happy marriage or a trip to Paris, that person isn’t going to be happy much of the time. If, on the other hand, happiness depends on a good breakfast, flowers in the yard, a drink or a nap, then we are more likely to live with quite a bit of happiness.”

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Andy Rooney

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“this is the year to play your cards right, lose yourself in a good book, add a twist, make sparks fly.”

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kate spade (via missjacobi)

hear, hear!

“When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down ‘happy’. They told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told them they didn’t understand life.”

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John Lennon  (via projectjenny)

Always worth the reminder.

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“We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.”

—   Tom Robbins

“He wanted to live life in such a way that if a photograph were taken at random, it would be a cool photograph. Things should look right. Fun; there should be a lot of fun and no more sadness than absolutely necessary.”

—   David Nicholls, One Day